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人生致命的七个经典问题 - by Sis Lee

问题一：如果你家附近有一家餐厅，东西又贵又难吃，桌上还爬着蟑螂，你会因为它很近很方便，就一而再、再而三地光临吗？
回答：你一定会说，这是什么烂问题，谁那么笨，花钱买罪受？可同样的情况换个场合，自己或许就做类似的蠢事。不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶品性不端，三心二意，不负责任。明知在一起没什么好的结果，怨恨已经比爱还多，但却“不知道为什么”还是要和他搅和下去，分不了手。说穿了，只是为了不甘，为了习惯，这不也和光临餐厅一样？——做人，为什么要过于执著？！

问题二：如果你不小心丢掉100块钱，只知道它好像丢在某个你走过的地方，你会花200块钱的车费去把那100块找回来吗？
回答：一个超级愚蠢的问题。可是，相似的事情却在人生中不断发生。做错了一件事，明知自己有问题，却怎么也不肯认错，反而花加倍的时间来找藉口，让别人对自己的印象大打折扣。被人骂了一句话，却花了无数时间难过，道理相同。为一件事情发火，不惜损人不利已，不惜血本，不惜时间，只为报复，不也一样无聊？失去一个人的感情，明知一切已无法挽回，却还是那么伤心，而且一伤心就是好几年，还要借酒浇愁，形销骨立。其实这样一点用也没有，只是损失更多。——做人，干吗为难自己？！

问题三：你会因为打开报纸发现每天都有车祸，就不敢出门吗？
回答：这是个什么烂问题？当然不会，那叫因噎废食。然而，有不少人却曾说：现在的离婚率那么高，让我都不敢谈恋爱了。说得还挺理所当然。也有不少女人看到有关的诸多报道，就对自己的另一半忧心忡忡，这不也是类似的反应？所谓乐观，就是得相信：虽然道路多艰险，我还是那个会平安过马路的人，只要我小心一点，不必害怕过马路。——做人，先要相信自己。

问题四：你相信每个人随便都可以成功立业吗？
回答：当然不会相信。但据观察，有人总是在听完成功人士绞尽脑汁的建议，比如说，多读书，多练习之后，问了另一个问题？那不是很难？我们都想在3分钟内学好英文，在5分钟内解决所有难题，难道成功是那么容易的吗？改变当然是难的。成功只因不怕困难，所以才能出类拔萃。有一次坐在出租车上，听见司机看到自己前后都是高档车，兀自感叹：“唉，为什么别人那么有钱，我的钱这么难赚？”我心血来潮，问他：“你认为世上有什么钱是好赚的？”他答不出来，过了半晌才说：好像都是别人的钱比较好赚。其实任何一个成功者都是艰辛取得。我们实在不该抱怨命运。——做人，依靠自己！

问题五：你认为完全没有打过篮球的人，可以当很好的篮球教练吗？
回答：当然不可能，外行不可能领导内行。可是，有许多人，对某个行业完全不了解，只听到那个行业好赚钱，就马上开起业来了。我看过对穿着没有任何口味、或根本不在乎穿着的人，梦想却是开间服装店；不知道电脑怎么开机的人，却想在网上聊天，结果道听途说，却不反省自己是否专业能力不足，只抱怨时不我与。——做人，量力而行。

问题六：相似但不相同的问题：你是否认为，篮球教练不上篮球场，闭着眼睛也可以主导一场完美的胜利？
回答：有病啊，当然是不可能的。可是却有不少朋友，自己没有时间打理，却拼命投资去开咖啡馆，开餐厅，开自己根本不懂的公司，火烧屁股一样急着把辛苦积攒的积蓄花掉，去当一个稀里糊涂的投资人。亏的总是比赚的多，却觉得自己是因为运气不好，而不是想法出了问题。——做人，记得反省自己。

问题七：你宁可永远后悔，也不愿意试一试自己能否转败为胜？
解答：恐怕没有人会说：“对，我就是这样的孬种”吧。然而，我们却常常在不该打退堂鼓时拼命打退堂鼓，为了恐惧失败而不敢尝试成功。以关颖珊赢得2000年世界花样滑冰冠军时的精彩表现为例：她一心想赢得第一名，然而在最后一场比赛前，她的总积分只排名第三位，在最后的自选曲项目上，她选择了突破，而不是少出错。在4分钟的长曲中，结合了最高难度的三周跳，并且还大胆地连跳了两次。她也可能会败得很难看，但是她毕竟成功了。她说：“因为我不想等到失败，才后悔自己还有潜力没发挥。”一个中国伟人曾说；胜利的希望和有利情况的恢复，往往产生于再坚持一下的努力之中。——做人，何妨放手一搏。

问题八：你的时间无限，长生不老，所以最想做的事，应该无限延期？　　
回答：不，傻瓜才会这样认为。　　然而我们却常说，等我老了，要去环游世界；等我退休，就要去做想做的事情；等孩子长大了，我就可以…… 　　我们都以为自己有无限的时间与精力。其实我们可以一步一步实现理想，不必在等待中徒耗生命。如果现在就能一步一步努力接近，我们就不会活了半生，却出现自己最不想看到的结局。　　——做人，要活在当下。

Written @ 9/27/2007 12:04:00 am

now i understand the meaning of "the most dangerous people is just beside you!" haiz!! i am damn sad le!! and colleague is just a colleague will not like frenz. So no need to treat them too good as a frenz. anyway I MUST overcome all this F***ing thing. to be more stronger in my future!!!! dun be sad for this F***ing IDIOT! is not worth it!!!!! IS A MUST TO OVERCOME!!!!!! JIA YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

THANKS to my frenz who Listen to mi!! Jasmin!! Peiling!! Kel!! and my dear!!

This is wat kel say. i should learn this experience.
- Ke[L]vIn - , , .. says (3:45 PM):
dun hate people becoz they done something bad to you,
thanks them for giving you the experience

Written @ 9/23/2007 03:36:00 pm

3 days of MC n 2 days of off days. I seldom sick until so "jia lat" faint! this few days at home slp. wanna go out but dun have the energy. =( later still got to go back to work. haiz! i am really unhappy with my job!!!!! =( the place n the people there.. so sad lo. but what should i do?

Written @ 9/22/2007 10:37:00 am

Ytd i was on MC. Omg~ really having slight fever, cough cum flu. faint. all come tgt. =O afternoon after taking my med den i juz fall a slp. Wake up abt 3pm. Met jas 6pm at Bugis temple. go pray pray. i find tat this few days my luck a bit down. I Also "chui qian" both was quite good. hehe. JH dad n jie jie also there we had our dinner at near by coffee shop. after our dinner me n jas go gossip n shopping.. lol. we went for express pedicure @ Bugis village.

Took some pic while waiting for the lady to be free..

look so serious chosing the colour. lol..

guess the pic above which leh is mine?

Post for the bear..

After our grossip, shopping n pedicure session meet JH at the dessert shop opposite bugis junction.

This is a steam egg on top of it is red bean. very lame rite? lOl~~~

this leh i also dunno wat is tat. got "bai guo"

this is mine. "zi ma hu" YumMy yuMMy~~~ =)~~

this is mango sago with ice scream not bad too... =P

after dessert session we head toward Loyang "Tau Bei Gong" pai pai.. then went to Changi village to had supper.

Today went to air port find my darling for dinner nothing much le. juz a short dinner session.

Last wed went to ECP for cycle session. so relax...

Took photo again lol!!

After cycle session we walk to East Coast Lagoon Food Village walk quite far wor.. but still ok le.. bcos while we walk grossip again... =X

2 crazy gal order so much food.. yuMMy~~~!

cant imaging we finish all the food~~~ FAT ah~~~~~~~ lOl~~~~

Written @ 9/18/2007 09:11:00 pm

my mum friend brought a packet of cookies from USA the teast quite nice. simply love it. but 1 packet only 8 pieces. -_-" the brands is Palets Bretons. i found a web site that have the recipe. quite interesting. haha. i will try it 1 day when i am free. hehe

This is how the cookies look like.

I was so sick now. don't know y suddenly like that. tmr going to c doctor n get mc le.. >..<

i am so sick of my job too.. don't know wat to do lo. my dear and frenz keep stressing mi to go study. after some of my own thinking session (haha) and something had happen to mi this few day i decided to take up some course. i don't wanna to stay at my current job forever. is real sux! My current job is too free sometime also don't know wanna do what. i was thinking i am wasting my 2 years time there. I have so many thing haven't do yet. I haven't pass my basic, haven't go holiday with my darling, wanna save more money!!! this 2 year i really nv achive anything!! so sad... =( have to wake up this time!!!!!!!

Written @ 9/16/2007 08:54:00 pm

veri sian lo. got to work 8 days den can have my 2 days off. so sad. this is a bad thing having a job as shift work. argh. wat to do leh. got no good cert. =O

last sun went to Philips sales with my mama. OMG~ lot of pple. mama buy lot of thing. -_-" so tired lo. after the sales mama go her fren house left mi alone carry all the thing home.

Written @ 9/13/2007 10:55:00 pm

nothing special this few days. so nv update my blog. for the past 2 day i suddenly few so bored . i think it is bcos my job too boring. so sad. my job is juz a waste of my time. =(

Today early in the morning my mum ask me to accompany her to "mei si zhan" @ suntec bcos she wanna buy some product from "yu ren sheng" this is what she brought. total cost abt $200+ faint! btw, the food there not really nice.